Tips on Picking Up Women

Wouldn’t it be nice if we lived in a world were the women were the aggressors and the men were the ones that got to do the rejecting in stead of the other way around. The women have to gracefully accept direct rejection and get a taste of their own medicine.

Would that be nice? It would take the challenge out of things but it would sure make things easy. And who wants challenge really if you can have easy. Most of us will take easy every time.

Anyway back to reality. And the way things are in reality is really not that challenging. Many times women are the aggressors only it’s more subtle. They have ways of letting you know they are interested, they let you know, they communicate it to you and you do get it. And they know you get it. And you know what many times you do pass on it. And when you do they feel rejected and they let you know that too. They will get up and walk out in a huff stamping their feet very loud on the floor letting you know how mad they are. They have just offered themselves to you, you got it, they know you got it and you ignored their advances. There’s something to think about here.

You don’t like being the aggressor and being in the position where you have to deal with a put down or a rejection. Well guess what they don’t like it either.

Here’s the thing on this. If you really aren’t interested then yes you godda do what you godda do, you have to reject them. But if you are in your early 20s and your hormones are raging completely out of control to the point where you have to take matters into your own hands, so to speak, you damn well better not be ignoring her advances or turning her down. There is no girl that’s that hideous that should be turned down by a 20 year old.

For everybody else you better not be rejecting some female that you have even the slightest interest in. You don’t like being turned down or rejected do you? No and either does she.

Here’s really the point of this. A lot of men ignore the advances of totally fine women and sometimes even incredibly beautiful beyond belief women. Even the ugliest guy around has ignored the advances of an extremely beautiful woman on a number of occasions.

After it’s over and done with and they’ve walked out of your life forever you usually ask yourself why you let that happen and you kick yourself for letting it happen. And you tell yourself you’ll never let it happen again but then on the next time you freeze up once again. This has happened to every man on earth. I have my own memories where this has happened with some drop dead gorgeous girls that haunt me to this day but this was before I knew the secret tips on picking up women. So what is the secret, how do you avoid doing this again? It real easy.

Just don’t make a big deal about it. It’s when you think it’s real important that you freeze up. The second you think it’s a big deal you freeze up. Just don’t make it important. Seriously, it’s easy. Just don’t make it a life or death situation because it isn’t.

There can be something a little frightening about a woman coming on to you, it seems a little unnatural but just realize there’s frightening or unnatural about it. She is the one that should be frightened, she is the one setting herself up for direct rejection. Why would you want to reject her she is only letting you know she likes you and she’s interested in you. Remember in the top paragraph we talked about how nice it would be if the women were the aggressors? Well here’s your chance, do you want that or are you just going to freeze up when it actually happens? Do you want women to do some of the work or do you want to do all the work yourself for the rest of your life. If you enjoy doing all the work then freeze up. If you want a world where the woman helps out then go with the flow.

If she’s a drop dead gorgeous woman don’t think you are not good enough, or she’s way to good for you or any of the million insecurities you may have. Let me say it straight. For one billionth of a second take your attention off of you and all your insecurities and put your attention on someone else for a change. That beautiful lady is interested in you and she’s letting you know, don’t be rude, think about her for a second and what she wants and helping her out and giving her what she wants and not slapping her in the face with a rejection for letting you know she likes you. Yes think about someone else for a second, think about her. She like you help her out.

Once again the main thing is don’t make a big deal about it. It’s not a big deal. Get up walk over to her table and sit down and just go with the flow. Does that sound hard? No. It isn’t hard. Could you still get rejected after she comes on to you? Yes you could but that’s the worst that can happen and that’s not a big deal either there’s no heavy investment involved and don’t forget she could get rejected as well. You just go over and see which way the flow goes that’s all you are doing. Just don’t think it’s a big deal because for one thing it isn’t and for another you will freeze up if you think it is.

Hey that’s a lot of words for a simple concept but when it comes to tips on picking up women a tip is only as good as it is useful or effective. This tip is very useful because well because it can be used. Next time you are in a “scary” situation were some little girl is coming on to you will you be able to remember and use the idea that it’s a piece of cake don’t make a big deal out of it. Yes you will remember it and you will use it. Will it be effective? Yes because as soon as you remember it’s no big deal you will be able to approach her and simply go with the flow.

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