Picking Up Women in Bars

Oh come on you gotta be kidding me. Picking up women in bars there isn’t even any challenge. If they have enough to drink they will be picking you up.

Some women will tell you we don’t go to bars to get picked up. Maybe it might be true for the girls that tell you that but even then you have to wonder why they are going to place where the men definitely are looking to hook up with a lady.

If you are married would you want your wife going to a singles bar. No of course not. It’s a pick up place for God’s sake. Do you think for one second the women don’t know that? Of course they do.

If you let your wife or girlfriend go to a singles bar you know guys are going to be hitting up on her. And the women know it too. So why are they going there? Because they want men hitting up on them.

If you hit up on a girl in a bar or nightclub and they act as though they are shocked tell them they are in a place where alcohol is being served and men are on the prowl. And you might tell them to grow up or wake up. Just remember you are not the one out of line approaching women in bars. That’s what you are supposed to do. That’s your job and don’t apologize for it or be embarrassed.

Let’s put it another way if you were a woman and you wanted to hook up with a man where do you think you would go? It’s pretty obvious isn’t it? The first place you would go is a night club or bar and this is in fact why a lot of women go there. There are women that go to bars purely to get picked up and the faster the better.

Sure there are women that go there with their girlfriends to have fun and not hook up (again you kind of have to wonder why they would go to a bar to have fun). But percentage wise the girls that are open to hooking up is higher then pretty much anyplace else. Again what do most people including women think of when the think bar or night club. They think sex. Let’s face it that’s what these places are all about. Men and women meeting and hooking up with each other.

So now that we have that established how do we proceed. Let’s go back to that idea that it’s your job to flirt with women don’t be embarrassed about it. On that idea don’t act like you are at a bar to have a nice conversation. That’s not why you’re there. And you are not there in the hopes of making friends with some nice lady. You are a full grown man and you are there to hook up with some smoking hot lady. You usually can’t come right out and say it (usually) but you can definitely put out that vibe by saying it indirectly, flirting with them, using some of the lines we have on our other pages (check them out) or in the book which you definitely need to get. You need to put it out there. If they like it you’ve made it if not move on quickly. If you don’t get a favorable reaction on the first attempt don’t worry if you move on fast it won’t be long at all before you get a very approving response.

If a girl isn’t interested you will find out real fast and this is not a bad thing it is a great thing. Just remember that it’s a huge time saver allowing you to have more opportunity.

Hooking up with women follows the same principles as business. In business you put an add out there with very little investment, an inexpensive small add if you don’t get a response you change the add (in this case you invest very little time move on to the next girl). You put the next add out, also at very little expense, and get a response, so now you roll it out (invest more money on a bigger add to get even more response). With women if you get a positive response you roll it out, you invest more time (and maybe some money) in her.

This is how it’s done in business. By doing it this way it guarantees success, invest little until you get a response and then roll it out. That way the losses are tiny but the gains are huge it guarantees success. Spend little time to see if you get a warm response and again you will find out fast (which is great.  Less investment) and stay or leave. It sounds too simple but this is how it’s done in business and it guarantees success every time with women as will.

And of course if a girl gives you an inviting smile or look that’s the one you go for first.

Now you know all you need to know about picking up women in bars. Sure there’s more you can learn but if you use just this one single principle on this page you will have success every time.

Just a couple of more tips: When you see some smoking hot beautiful babe dressed up and made up beautiful and you feel intimidated by her beauty just remember 3 things. First of all it’s just a body and some hair on the inside she is just as insecure as any other girl, second she’s made herself stunningly beautiful because she wants to attract a man and third when you are thinking of all the reasons why you can’t have a woman that gorgeous turn it around and ask why not you is the nerd that picks her up any better then you.

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