Picking Up Woman

This page will give  you some unusual yet very effective tips for picking up woman.  By the way why do I use grammatically incorrect language like picking up woman?  It’s because Google says this is what you guys are typing into Google that’s why.  Just wanted to explain myself.

It’s been said that it isn’t the man that picks the woman it is really the woman that picks the man and there is a lot truth in it and it’s actually very liberating.  Let’s face it being the agressor can have it’s disadvantages.  You have to be the one that approaches the opposite sex which has it’s pressures and can be uncomfortable and leaves you wide open for direct rejection.

So what does it mean the woman picks the man.  You’ve seen it we’ve all seen it a million times in a million situations.  Remember the classes in school when a girl likes one of the guys, you see it everybody in the classroom sees it.  It’s obvious.  Does the guy know it?  He’s usally the last one to know it but he does know it.

I was recently in the liquor up the street and I noticed the cashier, she was very pretty to, flirting with some Asian male.  He started flirting back and then he said, “WOW I’m usually not that bold with women” which made us laugh of course.  But he was bold with her because she was clearly warm to him and he felt the warmth and so felt comfortable being bold with her.

Do you see how this lessons the pressure on the male.  It completely take the pressure off him.  Could he get rejected?  Yes he could but he was so free of pressure he was able to be bold when he usually isn’t.

So it’s a much easier way of picking up women to let her choose you.  Here’s the deal.  The examples I gave above are real obvious examples where the girl is coming on to the man and of course it isn’t always this obvious.  However there are tons of times when this happens and happens to you which aren’t so obvious but they are there never the less and you do notice them.  A girl gives you a smile when you walk by and sure it could just be friendly but you can tell by the way she smiled that it wasn’t just friendly it was more.  But you usually keep walking.  And there are a million other times this has happened to you and sometimes by some gorgeous women too.  And you’ve passed up on 99% of these situations if you are like most men.  Why?  Why do you pass up these invitation why do you keep walking?  Well that’s something you are going to have to figure out but many times it’s our negative self chatter.  But another huge reason with most men is “they don’t know what to do, they don’t know what to say.”

They don’t know what to say is a huge one.  And a moment of awkward silence would be “unbearable.”

Well how about this as just one of many solutions.  So what screw the awkward silence don’t worry about it.  How can you not worry about it.  Simple you just stop.  “just stop that’s all?”  No you stop say nothing and don’t look at her yet expect her to say something.  If you stare at her expecting her to talk or racking your brain on what to say that’s when it gets awkward.  A lot of women, if they give you a positive inviting sign, will just start talking to you if you stop because they don’t want you to leave after all they like you (that’s why they gave you the  inviting sign).

If you saw the movie Saturday Night Fever with John Travolta a girl in the movie stared at him.  He looked her up and when she inquired why he looked her up he simply said, “you looked at me.”  If you stop near a girl that give you a positive sign you can say the same thing.  If you think that is too bold pick a line that works for you like:  After someone such as you smiles at me it’s difficult to move on.  Or the by the way you looked at me I thought you wanted to talk.  Or I got the impression you wanted to talk.  (was I wrong?)  Or you looked like a friendly person. (so I stopped).  I thought you gave me an inviting (or a friendly) look so I stopped (I didn’t want to make you mad).  When a girl like you looks at me I’m not going to keep walking I’m not a complete idiot.  And so on.

Pick one of these lines you are comfortable with or make up your own.  If you armed with one of these lines as a backup it will make stopping very easy.  But do stop.  Your first time may feel awkward (like it is the first time you do anything) but after you live through it or have a big success it will be a piece of cake after that.  Remember they are the one that gave you the positive sign.

After you get real good at it you won’t even wait for them to give you a positive sign you will be so bold.  But this is a very easy first step for picking up women.  Let the girl do the choosing.

There’s another unusual, very easy and highly effective technique for picking up woman.  I didn’t intend to tease you but this page is starting to get too long to launch into another subject but we can cover it on another page.  Opt in on the right with your name and email address and we can cover some more great stuff.  Your information is never shared of course.