Picking Up on Women

The best way of meeting women and picking up on women is to use workable business principals. Not the ones you learn in college but workable business principals as taught by guys like Dan Kennedy and Bill Glazer (you can Google them if you are interested).

In today’s lesson we will discuss the very important business principal of “interest.” No not compound interest rather mental interest. An interested prospect. To sell something in any quantity you have to have something of interest to people.

There’s 2 ways of getting an interested prospect. You can create interest in a prospect or you can find an interested prospect. Which one do you think is easier? Finding an interested prospect is a hundred thousand times easier then trying to create interest in a prospect that has no interest.

Think about it. If you are not interested in a product and someone is trying to get you interested in it in order to get you to buy the product how successful do you think that person is going to be? He will fail miserably. On the other hand if you have a lot of interest in a product how easy will it be to sell it to you. Extremely easy. So easy no “selling” even needs to be done. If you are real, real good and very smooth and highly skilled you can create interest if there is none but other then that it’s a hundred thousand times easier just to find someone who is actually interested.

Well it works the exact same way when it comes to picking up on women. If you are in a club and 20 women ignore you and one lady smiles at you guess which one you go for? Guess which one you will have an easier time with? All you got to do is walk up to the girl that smiled at you and say hi. Like in the example above it won’t even be necessary to “sell” in fact she will probably end up doing all the talking which in essence is actually selling herself to you. How easy is that?

That’s an example of “finding” the interest. Can you see how much easier that is then going to one of the 20 that ignored you and trying, trying, trying to sell her on the fact that you are the one she needs to go home with? Forget about it.

Don’t try to “create” interest “find” the interest. That doesn’t mean you can’t try to find interest buy saying hi to the hot beautiful babe sitting near you or attempting to start some light conversation. But be very clear on the fact that by doing that you are still trying to “find” interest and not attempting to “create” it.

If you want to beat yourself up go ahead and try to create interest with the hot smoking babe that you think you are madly in love with but don’t get upset when she leaves you behind as she walks out with a complete nerd. It’s your fault you tried to do it the hard way. But you thought you were in love with her so you had to at least try. Okay you might succeed but it might be a lot easier if you wait for another day when you are the guy the hot smoking babe is interested in. And it will happen. That’s a whole nether story how a woman will single out one guy she likes. One time it will be you the next time it will be your friend and so on.

So yes you can be friendly and say hi and chit chat to find interest but if you discover it isn’t there move on quickly and say hi and chit chat with the next one. Which brings up the next obvious question, “how do you know if they are interested?” It’s not hard you will figure it out in literally about 5 seconds. You will feel it, they are warm to you or they are not. If not warm don’t take it personally, it happens to every man under the sun, just move on. If they are warm to you, you have an interested prospect so stick around and walk out with either her or her phone number.

That’s how you take a workable business principal and use it to make picking up on women very easy.