Of Picking Up Women

The biggest “problem” men have in approaching women or of picking up women (or the problem they THINK they have) is “I don’t know what to say to them after I meet them.”

Actually this is part of a 3 article series on of picking up women so you will also need to see the other 2 articles at meeting women and meet women

There’s a radio station here in Los Angeles that has one of the biggest disk jockeys in the world teaching men the skills and techniques of picking up women (see the pages above). Also on the same station at a different time there are a couple of women that occasionally talk on how to pick up women if you can believe that.

These women say they love it when men are quiet and don’t talk.

So if you think you have a BIG problem because you may be at a loss for words or “there may be an awkward silence” you are creating a problem that isn’t there. It could be a little problem if you want to make it one, but not the BIG problem that some men think it is.

Many women have the ability to talk non stop we’ve all seen millions of such women. Many women can talk non stop and really prefer it that way and if you try to contribute to the conversation it is a total turn off to them. Has that ever happened to you? You try to contribute and the second you open your mouth they immediately lose interest? It happens to men sometimes and it’s real invalidating. You start wondering what you did wrong or what you said wrong. Well don’t take it personally it happens to all men and this is the reason for it. This isn’t saying all women prefer it that way but these two women do and they seem to think they speak for all women, for what it’s worth.

These two women disk jockeys say, “it is a real turn off when a guy talks so you men out there just please don’t talk” is their advice. If this is the case just sit back relax and pretend like you are interested. Pretend that you are actually listening to them and they will be eating out of your palm.

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